DEAR PERSON LOOKING FOR LOVE

Dear person looking for love, I hope you never settle for anything less than what you deserve. My prayer is that you get to experience love at least once in your lifetime; to love and be loved back in equal measure. I hope you get to experience the magic of being loved intentionally. A love that does not need constant reminding. Someone who finishes your sentences and knows what you need without having to utter a single word. A person you can fully be vulnerable with and feel safe. A person that lets you go in with both feet without having to constantly walk on eggshells thinking they would leave without warning one morning. A person who finds your flaws and stubbornness annoying as hell but difficult to live without because life would be so boring without you. I hope you get to experience this even if for just a season of your life so that you are living proof that such pure and effortless love actually exists.

Dear person looking for love, I hope you get to experience true love at least once in your life to serve as a benchmark of how it should be, to be loved unconditionally. I hope you get the strength to respect yourself enough to leave when you see the red flags pop up so that you don’t associate love with suffering as is the norm. I pray that when someone worthy comes your way you will not be afraid of giving love a chance because it will feel familiar and it will feel right.

Finally, for the love of God, don’t lose hope in your search for love. I promise you it exists in the purest form you just have to keep searching for it. Have the strength to keep going because you will get tempted to settle for less, DON’T DO IT. Your soul-mate is out there, it just needs a little patience.